Ever resented the success of someone you thought was a jerk? I’ve been there.
I mean, look at Charlie Sheen. Why is a guy strung out on meth & coke who has run off 3 different wives and alienated his own children by chasing porn stars and waving around guns get paid mad cash for sharing his crazy with thousands of ticket holders on a world tour? If you are going to church, working hard, paying your taxes and still struggling to get by then how can you not go, ”Hey Lord, what is that all about?”
The Charlie Sheen of the Bible may be Jacob. Don’t believe me? Let’s look at the Jacob’s story in Genesis 27-33.
Let’s begin with Genesis 27:1-46:
27:1 When Isaac was old and his eyes were dim so that he could not see, he called Esau his older son and said to him, “My son”; and he answered, “Here I am.” 2 He said, “Behold, I am old; I do not know the day of my death. 3 Now then, take your weapons, your quiver and your bow, and go out to the field and hunt game for me, 4 and prepare for me delicious food, such as I love, and bring it to me so that I may eat, that my soul may bless you before I die.”
5 Now Rebekah was listening when Isaac spoke to his son Esau. So when Esau went to the field to hunt for game and bring it, 6 Rebekah said to her son Jacob, “I heard your father speak to your brother Esau, 7 ‘Bring me game and prepare for me delicious food, that I may eat it and bless you before the Lord before I die.’ 8 Now therefore, my son, obey my voice as I command you. 9 Go to the flock and bring me two good young goats, so that I may prepare from them delicious food for your father, such as he loves. 10 And you shall bring it to your father to eat, so that he may bless you before he dies.” 11 But Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, “Behold, my brother Esau is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man. 12 Perhaps my father will feel me, and I shall seem to be mocking him and bring a curse upon myself and not a blessing.” 13 His mother said to him, “Let your curse be on me, my son; only obey my voice, and go, bring them to me.”
14 So he went and took them and brought them to his mother, and his mother prepared delicious food, such as his father loved. 15 Then Rebekah took the best garments of Esau her older son, which were with her in the house, and put them on Jacob her younger son. 16 And the skins of the young goats she put on his hands and on the smooth part of his neck. 17 And she put the delicious food and the bread, which she had prepared, into the hand of her son Jacob.
18 So he went in to his father and said, “My father.” And he said, “Here I am. Who are you, my son?” 19 Jacob said to his father, “I am Esau your firstborn. I have done as you told me; now sit up and eat of my game, that your soul may bless me.” 20 But Isaac said to his son, “How is it that you have found it so quickly, my son?” He answered, “Because the Lord your God granted me success.” 21 Then Isaac said to Jacob, “Please come near, that I may feel you, my son, to know whether you are really my son Esau or not.” 22 So Jacob went near to Isaac his father, who felt him and said, “The voice is Jacob’s voice, but the hands are the hands of Esau.” 23 And he did not recognize him, because his hands were hairy like his brother Esau’s hands. So he blessed him. 24 He said, “Are you really my son Esau?” He answered, “I am.” 25 Then he said, “Bring it near to me, that I may eat of my son’s game and bless you.” So he brought it near to him, and he ate; and he brought him wine, and he drank.
26 Then his father Isaac said to him, “Come near and kiss me, my son.” 27 So he came near and kissed him. And Isaac smelled the smell of his garments and blessed him and said,
“See, the smell of my son
is as the smell of a field that the Lord has blessed!
28 May God give you of the dew of heaven
and of the fatness of the earth
and plenty of grain and wine.
29 Let peoples serve you,
and nations bow down to you.
Be lord over your brothers,
and may your mother’s sons bow down to you.
Cursed be everyone who curses you,
and blessed be everyone who blesses you!”
30 As soon as Isaac had finished blessing Jacob, when Jacob had scarcely gone out from the presence of Isaac his father, Esau his brother came in from his hunting. 31 He also prepared delicious food and brought it to his father. And he said to his father, “Let my father arise and eat of his son’s game, that you may bless me.” 32 His father Isaac said to him, “Who are you?” He answered, “I am your son, your firstborn, Esau.” 33 Then Isaac trembled very violently and said, “Who was it then that hunted game and brought it to me, and I ate it all before you came, and I have blessed him? Yes, and he shall be blessed.” 34 As soon as Esau heard the words of his father, he cried out with an exceedingly great and bitter cry and said to his father, “Bless me, even me also, O my father!” 35 But he said, “Your brother came deceitfully, and he has taken away your blessing.” 36 Esau said, “Is he not rightly named Jacob? For he has cheated me these two times. He took away my birthright, and behold, now he has taken away my blessing.” Then he said, “Have you not reserved a blessing for me?” 37 Isaac answered and said to Esau, “Behold, I have made him lord over you, and all his brothers I have given to him for servants, and with grain and wine I have sustained him. What then can I do for you, my son?” 38 Esau said to his father, “Have you but one blessing, my father? Bless me, even me also, O my father.” And Esau lifted up his voice and wept.
39 Then Isaac his father answered and said to him:
“Behold, away from the fatness of the earth shall your dwelling be,
and away from the dew of heaven on high.
40 By your sword you shall live,
and you shall serve your brother;
but when you grow restless
you shall break his yoke from your neck.”
41 Now Esau hated Jacob because of the blessing with which his father had blessed him, and Esau said to himself, “The days of mourning for my father are approaching; then I will kill my brother Jacob.” 42 But the words of Esau her older son were told to Rebekah. So she sent and called Jacob her younger son and said to him, “Behold, your brother Esau comforts himself about you by planning to kill you. 43 Now therefore, my son, obey my voice. Arise, flee to Laban my brother in Haran 44 and stay with him a while, until your brother’s fury turns away— 45 until your brother’s anger turns away from you, and he forgets what you have done to him. Then I will send and bring you from there. Why should I be bereft of you both in one day?”
46 Then Rebekah said to Isaac, “I loathe my life because of the Hittite women. If Jacob marries one of the Hittite women like these, one of the women of the land, what good will my life be to me?”
So, Esau is one hairy dude (who has hair on the smooth part of his neck? Does he have mutton chops on the side of his throat? Was a Sasquatch?) and a dude who shops for NASCAR tee shirts at Wal-Mart, listens to country music, drives a Chevy Silverado with an NRA sticker who treats the first day of deer hunting season as a national holiday. He is impulsive and probably not very bright but he doesn’t appear to be a bad guy.
But what about Jacob? Who extorts a birth right from his own brother for a bowl of soup? Who invokes God’s name to lie to his elderly father to get a blessing? Why?
What do you see in Genesis 28-33? I’m not going to copy it all but read it and tell what you think of Jacob? He is a complete jerk! Think about it, he is a bad son, a bad brother, a bad husband, a bad father, a bad business partner…good wrestler!
Yet, look at what Jacob gets? Multiple blessings, a hot wife, lots of wealth and even a glimpse of the opening to heaven!
So, Esau is an impulsive redneck but doesn’t appear to be a bad guy but Jacob is a lying jerk but God blesses him anyway.
It is a legit question on the one hand but on the other hand it misses the point.
Of course we know life isn’t fair, I mean the Kardashians are millionaires! But God isn’t fair and that’s a good thing.
The problem with the question as to why God blesses Jacob is that there is no reason for God to bless us!
I have said this many times and it isn’t a perfect analogy but it’s the only one I have so if you have a better one out there then let me know. The first time I use it I will give you credit but after that it’s mine!
The reason we all get so angry when a child is assaulted is that we view children as pure and innocent. Even hardened felons will go after a person who hurts a child. Yet, nothing is more pure than God and every time we sin, as Don Carson points out, it is first and foremost a sin against God. God made us and loves us, so we are in a relationship with Him whether we want to admit it or not. So, when we sin, we spit in the face of the only one who loves us purely. Thus, it is axiomatic that any crime against God is a greater crime than hurting a child and deserves a greater punishment, which is eternal punishment in hell.
Yet, what does those who place faith in Jesus get? We get eternal life with God.
It is important to remember that when all is said and done, Jesus willingly gave up his birth right for us even though we are all Jacob’s and He grants us His blessing and takes our curse.
Jesus died to take the punishment for all of our sins (past, present and future) and lived a perfect life to give it us so that in the end we are judged by His life rather than our own. It is all grace and in return we should live obediently to demonstrate our love and gratitude for who He is and what He has done.